SLOW DOWN

Dear One,

Learn to slow down and enjoy every moment of your day. When you rush, rush, rush through life you don't notice My teachable moments that I send to enlighten you, moments which give you insight that you often just rush over quickly. Then I have to find another way to create the same type of situations so that you can glean the important truths that you missed.
When your mind is preoccupied with old events, replaying past situations, there is no room in your thoughts for Me to inject My truths that are pertinent to the current event. However, when your thoughts are on Me, eager to be taught My lessons with a clean tablet in your mind, it is easy for Me to inject My wisdom and insight.
Begin to practice showing down and keeping your thoughts cleared of bothersome debris which interferes with our teacher/student and Father/child relationship.
So please slow down the pace of your mind and your body so that you can listen to Me. You will be enriched by what I have to teach you. Our times together are called enrichment sessions. Make room for them every moment of every day, keeping your mind on Me.

Love, God
John 14:16; John 15:26-27; John 16:13-15; Romans 12:2; Ephesians 4:22-25; Philippians 4:8-9.

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BURY THE PAST

Dear One,

Forgive means to release. So to release the past from your memory means to forgive the past. That is really not a hard thing to do when you consider that nothing can be done to change the past except to forgive offenses from the past and release them. When you do that, then the events and the offending people have no control over you, only if you let them back in by reliving the offenses.
People talk about fearing "ghosts from the past." Actually there is a truth to that saying because you give life to the past by reliving it in your mind. When you relive it, you actually invite the demonic spirits who were responsible for the offence to revisit you, bringing their same devastation back into your life.
However, when you forgive everything from the past, you refuse to resuscitate the enemy spirits, shutting the door on their ability to minister their destructive temptations and activities again, and they can't trap you again by causing you to relive the past and relive the hurts again and again.
Forgive the people and refuse to go back and relive damaging events from the past. It is sadistic when you continue to injure yourself by reliving unpleasant events. The person who originally instigated the offense is responsible for the first time, but when you relive it you are responsible for each successive time by reliving it
People often say to bury the past. That is an appropriate saying because you only bury the dead, so if you forgive and release the past you are deeming it dead. Don't resurrect the dead past with its devastation.
Forget all that is past and look with eager expectation to your wonderful future, keeping your eyes on Jesus, the author and finisher of your faith who is building you a wonderful future, full of blessings.

Love, God
Matthew 6:12-15; Matthew 18:21-22; Mark 11:25-26; Philippians 3:13-15; Psalm 30:11-12.

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HEALTHY NUTRIENTS

Dear One,

There are healthy nutrients in earthly fruit that have necessary ingredients to overcome bacteria and viruses that are rampant in the earth. Your scientists tell you that.
Believe Me when I tell you that My fruit of the Spirit of goodness, kindness and love will overcome all manner of evil garnered against you. I tell you that it will always work for your good because you will always come out a winner on the side of goodness.
You can always speak the truth in love. That truth should always be the words that I give you through My Spirit who is the Spirit of Truth. When they are His words, they will be delivered with love and they will cover every manner of evil.
Your love seeds will always grow love plants which will bless you, bless the people who oppose you and bless your health and your future.
I am your Father and I tell you how to overcome evil. It is not to recompense evil for evil. It is to overcome evil with good. It will work every time
Sometimes you might have to wait a few minutes to receive My love words from My Spirit to speak. That's fine. The wait will confuse the evil spirits behind the opposing person. Those spirits are expecting for you to react in anger or strife. When you are quiet, waiting for My words of love, it confuses them. Then when you speak love words it chases the evil away, running like its tail is on fire. It really is, because I said you would be baptised with the Holy Spirit and fire and so My words are like fire to the opposing spirit.
I said to do good to your enemies and I said your actions are like coals of fire on the opposing spirits who are behind the people who are your enemies. The evil spirit behind their action have to flee when you do good to the people.
Do not be overcome with evil, but overcome evil with good.
Love, God
Romans 12:18- 21; Matthew 12:35-37; I Thessalonians 5:15; James 3:8-12; James 1:11.

RETURN GOOD FOR EVIL

Dear One,

I offered valuable advice to My children when I told them to not be overcome with evil but to overcome evil with good.. If you trust My wisdom, that advice should convince you that good will always overcome evil or I would not have told you that nugget of insight. You must realize that I would never have told you that truth if good did not overcome evil every time. It is a spiritual fact, a spiritual surety, a spiritual law.
What frequently happens is that evil will often overcome My children. That happens when you yield to temptations sent by evil spirits who entice you into giving in to indulgences, hated, anger, strife, envy, drunkenness, jealousy and other spirits from hell. But if you will, instead, yield to My power inside of you, the Spirit of Truth, then you have the spiritual ability to overcome all temptations.
Also, when a person comes at you with evil intent, whether with accusations, injurious words or mean actions, you can overcome all of those by returning good actions which can be delivered through loving words or gracious acts. You will see the evil intent in the other person shrink away like the coward that it is.
I would not have told you to overcome evil with good if I did not know that good will always overcome evil. It's a spiritual law. It's like putting fire out with a mountain of water. When you refuse to return evil for evil, the evil in the other person must yield to the good in you.
Trust Me, it will happen.

Love, God
Matthew 5: 38-48; Romans 12:17-21; I Thessalonians 5:14-15; I Peter 3:8-13; III John 1:11.

STINKY CLOTHES

Dear One,
Your mind is not an incubator for past mistakes, past sins, past unpleasantness or past hurts of anyone to be rehashed and rehatched. Don't give life to them again and again.
I want your mind to be a storage house of My treasures of My wisdom and My knowledge for the transformation and renewal of your soul which will bring blessings for your present and your future so that you might prove what is My acceptable will for you and all of My children.
Unless the memories of the past glorify My works, which are My gifts of love through healings of every kind, miracles, wisdom, knowledge and faith, don't give even one moment of thought to ones that stir up bad situations. Only give thought to things from the past that are pleasant, good, kind and of a good report.
If you will think about what bad reports from the past do to your emotional stability, you can only imagine what they do to your body in spewing out negative chemicals and what they do to your future because of the production of negative attitudes which sow bad seeds into your garden of life.
Bad thoughts and bad memories produce bad futures. Reject them.
Then think about the joy, peace and love that comes from thinking about good things that I have done for you or thinking about My promises for your future. You can feel the good chemicals flowing through your body. You can rely upon good attitudes producing actions which will sow good seeds in your present and in your future.
Rehashing bad things from the past is like putting on grave clothes which are stinky and rotten and cursed. Believe me when I tell you that they will curse you.
Rehashing My promises in your mind will do the opposite. They will be like putting on garments of joy and gladness, thus blessing your present and your future.
Love, God
Philippians 4:6-9; Psalm 30;11-12; I Corinthians 12:7-11; Ephesians 4:22-27.

SPIRITUAL ATTRACTION

Dear One,
Unpleasant events from the past renew themselves when you persist in rehashing them in your mind.
Unpleasant events are given new life when you live on Memory Lane of the bad events.
Unpleasant events only have importance in your mind if you give them importance by letting them determine your current mindset by reliving the damaging situations.
Don't give life to bad events from your past because if you do they will determine your future by inviting similar situations into your life. Like things attract like things. Forgive the offenses and let them go for your own health and safety.
Your mental role playing of events from the past is much more important than you think it is. It is the sowing and reaping scenario. Replaying bad events in your thoughts will always cause them to recreate themselves in similar situations.
Again I say to you, forgive them and let them go. Then you will be free to have faith for a wonderful future that is unencumbered by hurts from the past.
I am the Father of New Beginnings but if you cling to the hurtful events from the past you bind yourself to them and they will replay themselves not only in your mind but in your future.
Forgive and forget the past and reach forward to My high calling for you.
Love, God
II Corinthians 5:17-19; Revelation 21:5; Philippians 3:13-15; Galatians 6:8-10.

BAPTISED IN LOVE

Dear One,
Love never ends. Love continues forever.
Love's powers minister forever to the living in the form of good memories.
Love never ceases. Love extends your life and its life.
Love enriches life. Love glorifies life.
Love gives life to others and yourself. Love gives joy to yourself and others.
Love multiplies itself when it is shown to others. It becomes love seeds that are passed on and on.
Love never subtracts good things. Love only subtracts bad things like abuse, anger, doubt, unkindness, depression, sadness and like things.
Love always increases happiness.
Love establishes good foundations and soundness of mind.
Kind words spoken to others in love have powers and abilities that you cannot imagine. They gird up with strength the fragile egos of the unloved. They elevate the self worth of others. They establish others in My love.
You get the boomerang effect of love words spoken by you and love actions performed by you because you get to be baptised in love also.
Sharing My love is a great way to share Me.
Love, God
John 13:34-35; John 15:12-17; Romans 12:10; Romans 13:8; Galatians 5:13-15; Ephesians 2;7-11; Ephesians 4:1-3; II John 1:5-6;

TREASURES

Dear One,

Look for My treasures every day. You should become treasure hunters. In fact, you should be a treasure hunter every day.
I have told My children not to store up treasures on earth where moths and dust can corrupt or thieves can break through and steal, but to seek after heavenly or spiritual treasures because where your treasures are there will your heart be also. When I told you to seek My treasures, I wanted men to know that there are spiritual treasures available for you to pursue.
I have never hidden My treasures of wisdom and knowledge from you. The devil has obscured them, hidden them from you because he doesn't want you to find them and prosper spiritually. When you find them, then everything is added to you.
Every nugget of wisdom that you find will renew your mind and cause you to become more confident as you become more intimately acquainted with Me, because my wisdom expounds on My love for you. Then when the knowledge of My love is fully revealed to you, there will be no fear in you because perfected love casts out fear. The enemy will have no influence on you because he always works in fear
Watch for My treasures to appear and also seek for them with your whole heart. They are worth finding. My treasures always enrich your life in millions of ways.

Love, God
Matthew 6:19-21; Ephesians 3: 14-20; I John 2:4-6; I John 4:15-19.

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JUDGMENT SEEDS

Dear One,

You will find that sin has its own judgment.
I am not the judge.
Jesus said He judges no man.
I told My children not to judge or they would be judged.
So can you see that sin judges its own participants in its actions?
Judgment comes under the spiritual theory of sowing and reaping. If you sow unrighteousness you will reap unrighteousness. If you sow righteousness you will reap righteousness. That is why evil spirits want to entice you to obey their temptations, because they know that you will attract evil into your life, thus judging you for your actions.
Think about civil laws. When a person breaks those laws he will be arrested, judged, sentenced and then be punished by imprisonment or fine or death. It is the laws that judge him. Human judges only pronounce the sentence which is already set by law. The temptation to break the laws were administered by evil cohorts, yet the law breaker was judged, sentenced and punished.
It's the same with spiritual principles. The devil and his demons tempt My children to be angry, divisive, jealous, envious, backbiters, liars, strife mongers, impure, immoral, selfish, intemperate, liars, robbers and others,. When My children participate in the evil deeds they sow seeds that they will reap because evil has its own judgment which is destruction. That was the reason for the temptation in the first place, to destroy My children. So the judge is the tempter of the evil. It is not Me. The judgment will eventually come, if not immediately it will come in your future. You might not relate the destruction in your life to the evil actions, but they are always related. Evil seeds always grow plants which will curse you and your future.
My guidance for you is to be led by My Spirit. His enticements are for you to be loving, kind, good, joyful, faithful, merciful, peaceful and patient. Those seeds produce the same actions in your life and they will come to you from others. They produce blessings, not curses.
Sow My seeds and you will produce beneficial plants from which you reap blessings.
Sow the seeds of the evil one and you will produce cursed plants from which you will reap destruction.
My children who take My advice walk in love.
The sowing of good seeds is your responsibility.
Forgiveness is My willing responsibility, but if you continue sowing bad seeds you will reap curses in your life.
I told My children to choose between curses and blessings. Choose blessings.

Love, God
Matthew 7:1-2; Luke 6:37; John 7:24; John 12:47; Galatians 5:16-25; Galatians 6:7-10.

TIME DOESN'T CURE

Dear One,

My children believe that time cures all things. Things will always change because nothing stays stagnant, but the changes are not always good ones. Most often, if the people stay the same, then the bad events will eventually have worse changes, not good ones.
Things don't change for the better with time unless there are changes in the people involved. But, when people seek solutions through wisdom and knowledge, then you will see good changes because the new insights have brought changes in the people.
When My children come to Me for solutions to problems, there is no stare down to see which person involved in the problem is eventually going to give in first.
With My insight, which give solutions to the problems, the people take a proactive course of action, not a wait and see approach. In other words, stubbornness gives in to effective changes in the people.
With prayers, with My solutions and you taking a proactive course suggested by My Holy Spirit into all problems, effective methods are always found to every problem. Yes, I said to every problem.
Letting time take care of things is a gamble. Seeking Me and My solutions is a sure thing.
Love, God
John 16:13- 15; Romans 12:2-3; Ephesians 4:22-27; Philippians 2:4-15

ONE WITH GOD

Dear One,

We are all one, Jesus, the Holy Spirit, the saints who have gone from the earth to live with Me, the prophets, the apostles, the angels and Me. We are all One, just like Jesus prayed, because We are of one mind, of one determination. Our goal is that you and the rest of My children will defeat evil in your lives so that you will have joy, peace, love and rest in your earthly existence.
When you are one in purpose and you bring your mind into unity with all of Us, then magnificent things are done in your behalf. You are led by the still waters and onto the paths of righteousness where wisdom and knowledge are your constant bread and wine at My table where your soul is restored.
Unity with Me and with the redeemed ones in heaven has advantages that you cannot imagine.
You don't even have the courage to wish for what is available to you when you are One with Me. Your cup will run over and goodness and mercy will follow you everywhere you put your feet.
Just look at everything you have at your disposal when you become one with Us in purpose and determination. You inheritance is endless.
It is worth it for you to determine that you will be one with Me, the lover of your soul. Then you are in unity with the heavenly hosts who also want the best things for you and are working in your behalf.

Love, God
Hebrews 12:1-2 and 22-24; John 17:11 and 21-23; Ephesians 4:3-7 and 13.

THE PROPERTIES OF FEAR

Dear One,

There is never anything to fear, not even fear itself.
Fear is the primary characteristic of your enemy and he has no properties that you cannot overcome with My power.
The main product of fear is cowardice because the devil always works in the dark and he detests the light. He and his demons cower when light is shined upon them. Light is their enemy because when light illuminates them they are seen as what they are, little worms.
Their actions of deception always take place in the dark because of their own lack of power. They have to use the imagination of men to entice them to fear things. Then men cower in fear themselves as ones lacking in power.
It should not be so.
My children are the ones with My power. My children should be the ones with courage to face down the spirits of fear and cowardice and deception. My words put them in their place just like they did when Jesus used them against the devil.
My words are full of light and they dispel all the fear and temptations of the evil one.
I told you that I have not given you a spirit of fear but of power, love and a sound mind. A sound mind knows that the worms of fear have to yield to My words. They have no choice but to run like scared rabbits when My children use My promises, My wisdom and My revealed words to them.
The spirits of fear actually fear Me. They fear My children, too, who have My power, My love and My gift of a sound mind which is renewed by My Spirit.
You are the victor. Don't act like a coward when fear attacks your mind. Just speak My words and fear has to leave because light has been applied to it.

Love, God
II Timothy 1:6-7; Luke 4:3-13; Luke 8:49-50; Luke 12:32; Romans 8:14-16; Isaiah 14:11-20; Luke 11:34-36; John 1:7-13.

OVERCOMING OBSTACLES

Dear One,

Rarely can anyone settle into a life that is completely without conflict, with no turmoil, no disturbing news, no family disagreements, no arguments, no neglect, no bills owed, and no evil reports.
The fact that My children live in a world with other people, that scenario is what contributes to a life that has tribulation in it. A completely stress free life never happens.
The promise of Jesus when He said, "Be of good cheer, I have overcome the world," occurred after he revealed that men would always have tribulation. His promise related to the fact that when men have My power in them like Jesus had My power in Him, then they can overcome the works of the devil in the world every time.
Jesus promised the power to overcome all the negatives in the world after He promised to give peace to everyone who comes to Us seeking peace in the midst of difficult situations. He promised to give peace, not as the world gives peace, but He promised My peace and His peace through the Holy Spirit.
A person's efforts to avoid unpleasantness in life are impossible to attain because you live in a world with other people who enjoy dispensing unpleasantness and you live in a world with people who unknowingly yield to the devil's temptations to sow discord and you live in a world where that discord comes upon you.
There is a secret solution for My children who will listen to Me when My Spirit comforts them. I always say to be of good cheer, or rejoice, because you will overcome the obstacle. With effective prayers from you, that problem will either disappear or My Spirit will tell you what to do to make it disappear or the solution will just come out of the blue, out of My heaven.
Jesus keeps His promises. You will overcome every problem, every obstacle, every bad situation, but you should be of good cheer during the situation so that the solution will easily appear.
Griping, complaining and moaning with "poor me" attitudes never accessed good solutions. Read about the children of Israel who wandered 40 years in the wilderness griping and complaining all the time. They could have gotten to the promised land in a few weeks if they had been of good cheer, rejoicing that I had their solutions.
Every obstacle -- yes, every obstacle will be overcome and you will see the results of conquering the negative events.
Remember that I am the Father of Solutions and I tell you to be of good cheer because together you and I will overcome every negative event in your life.
Love, God
John 14:27; John 16:33; I Corinthians 10:10; Romans 3:4; Romans 12:21; I John 4:4; I John 5:4-5.
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GOD UNDERSTANDS

Dear One,

I understand. Yes, I understand.
I understand that there is a demonic motivation behind every evil action.
I understand that evil motivations are impossible to control and refuse to act upon unless you have the power of My Spirit in you.
I understand that My motivation is behind every good action.
I understand that even with the supernatural power of My Spirit, that very often My children do not use their own will power in conjunction with My Spirit to control the thoughts and deeds which yield to the temptations of evil.
I understand it all, and I extend mercy to every person who is caught in the traps set by the evil one to defeat him.
I understand and I send My mercy to them; yet, I cannot circumvent their will and reverse the bad effects of the seeds the person has sown unless he turns from the destructive actions in which he persists that require the repayment of destructive actions for destructive choices.
Jesus said that the measure you give will be the measure that will return to you, evil for evil or good for good. That is a spiritual principle.
Don't ever forget that I understand and I extend my mercy. Yet, I grieve when a person does not understand that demonic actions will return to him as destruction in his own life; yes, the same measure he gave.
I understand, but I cannot reverse the curses unless My children return to Me and turn away from their activities of sowing destructive seeds while still expecting good things to come back to them. It's impossible.
The gardens of destruction in which actions like envy, strife, anger, disgust, division, lying, deceitfulness, wickedness, jealousy, backbiting, being judgmental, pride, spite and other activities are sown can only yield the same crops.
I always understand, but I cannot reverse the yield of a destructive crop unless My children turn away from destruction, turn back to Me, hear My wisdom and cooperate with Me on how to pull up the poisonous plants and resow healthy, nutritious seeds. Only then can we can work together to reverse the curses and turn them into blessings.
The first step is to turn from cooperating with destruction. You must know that destruction will yield destruction.
Seek My instructions which will always show you the way out. The ways out are always the paths of righteousness, taking the high road that I show you. Then if you continue on the high road you will enjoy a peaceable, happy life.
I always understand your dilemmas. I can remedy your problems if you will turn to Me and let Me lead you onto the right path.

Love, God
Ezekiel 11:19-21; Romans 1:28-32; Ephesians 4:22-32; II Chronicles 7:14.

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A NEW DAY

Dear One,
Every day is a new day.
Every day is a new beginning of a new life.
Every day creates new adventures.
Every day starts new friendships.
Every day begins anew your present and your future.
Look to every day and its new beginnings.
There is new excitement every day unless you choose to live in the past with its failures, its family curses, its sadness, its abuse, its negativity, its broken relationships and its uncertainties.
When you choose, as an act of your will, to leave the past behind and begin every day anew with the new life that I create for you, then your destiny shifts from bad to good and from curses to blessings. But if you choose to live in the past, then you retain the emotional hurts from the past and they will continue to negatively influence your future.
It has been written, "Look to this day for it is life, the very breath of life." That is true when you leave the dead past behind you and get excited about your bright and exciting future.
Remember that I walk with you and ahead of you into your future and I redeem the past that is behind you, all to ensure you a bright and happy life.
My life for you is full of new beginnings.
Love, God
Ezekiel 11:19-21; Ezekiel 36:26-30; Matthew 9:16-17; Ephesians 4:22-24; Philippians 3:13-15.

MERCY ATTRACTS MERCY

Dear One,
After you learn about My mercy, you should be well versed in the benefits of having mercy extended by Me to you. Then you must practice extending My mercy to others.
Extend mercy to the person who is sinning, just like I do to you.
Extend mercy to the person who is diseased and in pain, just I do to you.
Extend mercy to the person who is an abuser, just like I do to you when you unknowingly abuse others by speaking unkind words or by omitting to provide kind words when they are necessary.
Extend mercy to the person who is in rebellion to me or the child who is in rebellion to his parents.
Extend mercy to the person who is indiscreet.
Extend mercy to the person who enjoys his unrighteousness, just like I did to you when you walked in darkness.
Extend mercy to the person who constantly misses the mark.
When you give mercy you will receive mercy. It's an equal exchange and a spiritual principle that you receive back what you give. It's called seed sowing.
Also, when you extend mercy to others, then people will know that you are My child because you have loved the unlovable and the undeserving.
I want to show the unbelievers through My children that I am merciful instead of judgmental and condemning. Unbelievers won't know My true nature unless My children exemplify it.
Extend mercy to everyone so that others will know that I am merciful.
Love, God
Romans 5:6-8; Hebrews 4:15-16; Matthew 7:1-5; Luke 6:37-38; John 7:24; John 8:15-16; John 12:47-50; Matthew 9:13; Luke 1:78-80.

EVERLASTING LOVE

Dear One,
Are there any elements or people in the world that you can completely rely on?
No, because they are all temporary, temporal, subject to change and subject to passing away or deteriorating or rotting or dissolving.
Just when you would decide to completely rely upon them, they might disappear or change so that they aren't the same configuration that they formally were.
That is why My love is the greatest of all. My love never changes. It never deteriorates. It never dies. It never disappears.
I am the same yesterday, today and forever because I never change. You can rely upon Me because I will be the same a million years from now as I was a million years in the past.
You should only rely upon someone who has stood the test of time and who will always stand the test of time.
My love for you is timeless. I will always be there for you with mercy, forgiveness, joy and My everlasting love.
Love, God
I Corinthians 13:12; Romans 5:5-11; Romans 8:38-39; Ephesians 2:4-8; Hebrews 13:8; II Timothy 1:7; I John 2:5.

EVERLASTING MERCY

Dear One,
My mercies are everlasting.
The power in My mercies transcends all sin, all unrighteousness, all transgressions, all indiscretions, all abuses, all failures, all lack and all ungodliness.
My mercies are the element of My love that completely cover every action of men that people think I can never forgive. But I do forgive and the marvel of My forgiveness is that it comes from My mercy which comes from My love.
My mercy is what meets the needs of My children when there is no deserving of forgiveness.
My mercy is what speaks of My love when there is nothing that warrants My love.
My mercy is what takes My child into My love cocoon in the midst of pain and misery from disease.
My mercy is what gives peace to a person in the midst of turmoil.
My mercy is everlasting because My love never fails.
Love, God
Psalsm 136, entire chapter; Psalm 138:8; Jeremian 33:11; James 5:11

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LISTEN TO COUNSEL

Dear One,

Be sure and listen to your counselor, My Holy Spirit. We have your best interest at heart. We want the highest and best for you. We want you to let Us guide you into the right paths, the paths of righteousness, where there are no obstacles that can plague you.
We want you to always be able to rely upon Our guidance and Our counsel.
You recognize Our voice because, like I said, the sheep know the voice of the shepherd.
Be sure that you wait until you have complete guidance from Me before you venture out into unfamiliar waters.
Remember that your inner radar is My Spirit who knows all and sees all. He will make sure you take the right paths because He knows the enemy wants to destroy all of My children by trickery and deceit. That's why you need My Spirit, because He is your protector and guide and comfort and wise counselor. Jesus relied on Him completely. Jesus knew that My Holy Spirit delivered My words to Him. He knew the value of My Comforter.
My comfort, My guidance, My power and My protection are inside of you.
Heed His words. He wants to do the same things that I want to do for you. He wants to make sure you have productive, successful ventures so that your days in the earth are happy.

Love, God
John 10:2-5; John 14:15-17; John 15:7-12 and 24-27; John 16:7-15; Ephesians 3:16-21.

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MEMORY LANE

Dear One,

You have learned a valuable lesson in the fact that there are places in your mind that you just don't go. It's like going to hell when you allow your thoughts to visit those images even for a second. That is where your will comes in.
The will of a person is where choices are made, choosing good over evil, blessings over curses, life over death.
Even some good memories are often places in your mind that need to be avoided until such a time that loneliness and loss are gone. Then you can visit memory lane and enjoy the visits rather than grieving and mourning every time you relive the memories, even though they are good.
Visiting bad memory lane is, of course, never a good idea unless it is a visit in which you are accompanied and ushered in by My Spirit and He accompanies you there to teach you some valuable lessons. Those visits into bad memories should only be taken with the protection of My Spirit and at His guidance.
The "hows" and the "whys" and the "what ifs," and the "if only," thoughts are unnecessary for the newly abandoned person or the recently injured person or the abused person. You should simply enjoy My present and future adventures that I have planned for you, imagining only My plans and surprises and orchestrations that I send to help you over the hurdles that crop up on the road to healing.
I will explain to you all the mechanics connected with a particular bad situation later when the wounds are healed and the scars are gone and the good choices are easier to make.
You are My child and I am obligated to protect you emotionally as well as spiritually and physically. Good earthly dads do that for their children. How much more will I protect My children
Learn to exercise your will by choosing never to look behind but to always look forward toward My new and beneficial blessings for you. I promised them for you and there are already there ready for your harvest.

Love, God
Philippians 3;13-14; Philippians 4:6-8; Matthew 9:16-17; Deuteronomy 30:19-20;

HUMILITY

Dear One,

Learn from the best. Learn humility from Jesus.
Read about and learn that He did not promote himself but He promoted Me as His source, as His wisdom, as His facilitator. He proved His humility when He lovingly ministered to the lowliest positions of humanity, elevating them to places of honor. That is why He was called to places where He ministered to the poor, the sick and the broken hearted, because when He gave His power to them they were healed and given knowledge which elevated them to a place of honor, where before they had no honor.
When Jesus told the rich man to sell all he had and then he would inherit the kingdom, he was telling him that he must humble himself to a place of having nothing so that Jesus could raise him up to a place of honor by giving him the Kingdom.
Jesus said that the meek will inherit the earth.
Meekness is humility.
Humble yourself and become like Jesus.

Love, God
James 4:10; I Peter 5:5-7; Mark 10:25; Matthew 18:4-6; Matthew 23:12; Luke 14:11; Philippians 2:5-11. Matthew 5:5.