Sunday, February 7, 2016

RELATIONSHIPS - ONE-ON-ONE WITH GOD

Dear One,
    It was a mystery to the disciples of Jesus when He told them that My Holy Spirit had been with them because He lived inside of Jesus, but Jesus said that My Spirit would come to live in them after Jesus came back to live with Me.  Jesus said that the same Holy Spirit who empowered Jesus to do mighty works of a supernatural nature would also do the same things in you.  Not only was it a mystery to those disciples but it is still a mystery to My children today.  Jesus related the mystery to when the wind blows and you don't know from where it comes, but you see the results of it. 
    My Holy Spirit is My very own Spirit, a gift to My children who asks Him to come and live in them and baptize them with My power.  He is no longer a mystery after He comes to live in you because you have experienced My power, My abilities and My wisdom firsthand as My Spirit manifests My love to you.  The results of the indwelling Holy Spirit become evident, or witnessed by you and others. 
     Jesus said that He would not leave any of My children comfortless, but that He would come to them in the person of My Spirit to live inside of them. (John 14:15-21)  Jesus called My Holy Spirit the "promise of the Father. (Acts 1:4-8)  My dwelling places in the earth became the bodies of My children. (I Corinthians 3:16-17)  What a wonderful day that was in the earth, when My Spirit came to live in the spiritual bodies of human beings.  It is still a wonderful day today when that decision is made to invite Him in.  And then when My Spirit is allowed to create a new person in you, one made after My image, there is great joy in heaven.
    The primary work of My Spirit when He comes to live in you is that He starts immediately conforming you into My image.  You begin to become the evidence of My character in the earth just like Jesus was a witness to My character.  With My human children it is a process because the old character has to pass away before the new character can be manifested in them. That happens by the tutoring of My Holy Spirit, who leads you into all truth.  He takes what I said to My disciples and He makes the words new, fresh, personal and applicable to each person.  The cleaning of My temple is done from the inside out. 
     My characteristic of love becomes evident, or witnessed, in My children who allow My Spirit to reveal My love to them.
     My characteristic of joy becomes evident, or witnessed, in My children who allow My Spirit to teach them My wisdom because wisdom always produces joy.
     My characteristic of peace becomes evident, or witnessed, in My children and they become the peacemakers in the earth, dispelling all strife, all dissension, all division, all disagreements, all emotional drama, all skirmishes and all wars.
     My goodness of character becomes evident in My children and they become the doers of good works toward all people.
     My kindness of character is evident, or witnessed, in My children and they will not insist upon their own ways but will respect the beliefs, the racial origins and the religions of others, refusing to become rigid in anything.   Kindness is flexible, respecting the opinions of others rather than opposing them.
     My merciful nature becomes evident, or witnessed, in My children and they are never judgmental or condemning.  Instead they are forgiving and understanding of everyone, refusing to look on the flesh of people but only looking on their spirits.  Because they are merciful, they will obtain mercy from others.
     My faith or faithfulness of character is evident, or witnessed, in My children and they are known as loyal, responsible and stable family members, friends, workers and faithful children of Mine.
     My patience is evident, or witnessed, in My children.  They know, as taught by My wisdom, that I am always working in their behalf and they are patient because they know that it takes My angels a while to change the minds of people because of the gift of free will I gave to all people.  My patience in the Holy Spirit will give you the necessary patience to also be understanding and long suffering in difficult situations. 
     I said that it is with faith and patience that My children inherit My promises. (Hebrews 6:12)  I also said that faith works by love. (Galatians 5:6)  So it is through your allowing My Spirit to perfect My character in you, making you the image of My love in the world, that allows you to ask for blessings and receive them.
     As My Spirit works My character in you, you must be willing and obedient.  It is the corrupt, bitter works of the flesh of people that keeps them from receiving their due rewards from Me.  It is My character, the fruit of My Holy Spirit, which makes you recognizable as My child and identified as the inheritor of My blessings. (Matthew 12:8-10)
     Give willingly to My Holy Spirit the important task of being your full time tutor, your revelation rock upon which Jesus said He would build the church into a fortress which cannot be moved.(Matthew 16:13-19)  Receiving your inheritance depends upon it.
     Your Loving, Peaceful, Joyful, Good, Kind, Patient, Merciful and Faithful  Father                     

Saturday, February 6, 2016

RELATIONSHIPS - THE BLOOD OF JESUS


Dear One,
    You read about the blood of Jesus and you hear about the blood of Jesus never losing its power.  So what is it about Jesus' blood that deserves such attention and reverence?
    As you well know, the blood type of a human child comes from the father of the child.  My Spirit is called the Spirit of Life.  It says in My Instruction Book that My Holy Spirit came upon Mary and impregnated her, which is called the Immaculate Conception.  (Luke 1:30-35)  My blood type is My Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Life.  Since I am the Father of Jesus, My blood type was in Him.  My blood type was in the flesh of Jesus, since it was My Holy Spirit who impregnated Mary.  In order for Him to suffer in the flesh for the sins of everyone, that was the only way that Jesus could legally come into the earth as the Son of a man/Son of God is for a human female, Mary, to be impregnated by My Holy Spirit. 
    So when you read about the power in the blood of Jesus, it is talking about My Precious Holy Spirit, who is the Spirit of all life and power.  My Spirit is the One whom Jesus said is mighty and through whom My children would do greater works than Jesus did when He walked in the earth.(John 14:12)  Jesus could not implement the new birth in people because My Spirit had not been released from Him to live in the spirits of other humans.  (John 3:7-8) After Jesus came to live with Me in heaven, We sent the Holy Spirit into the earth to live in people who invite Him to live in their spirits and do mighty works in them. (John 7:37-39)
     It is through My Holy Spirit that all miracles are done in the earth.  It is through My Holy Spirit that all healings are done in the earth.  It is through My Holy Spirit that people are born of My Spirit with the ability to be changed from mere humans to people who do My supernatural works. It is through My power that My kingdom comes to live in people and recreate them into My creations. It is through My Holy Spirit that the earth was created.  (Genesis 1:1-2)
     Jesus taught that it was epedient, necessary and to be desired that He leave the earth because if He did not leave the earth that the Holy Spirit could not come to live inside of people and teach them all things.   He said that while He was in the earth that My Spirit was with his followers but when He left the earth that My Spirit would come to live inside of them.  What a glorious day that was and what a glorious day that that still is when a human being invites Me to live inside of him or her in the person of My Holy Spirit.  That is when My kingdom comes to live inside of the person and when the person becomes the temple of My Spirit with all My power resident within. (I Corinthians 6:19)  When you become a new creation, My Spirit becomes Lord of your life, bringing liberty to every area.(II Corinthians 3:16-17)
     Jesus told you the importance of My Holy Spirit when He said that a blasphemy against Him is easily forgiven, but He said that blasphemy against My Holy Spirit cannot be forgiven because to blaspheme My Spirit is to revile Me.  When a person reviles My power, the person has denied Me. (Luke 12:8-12)
     My Spirit reveals all truth to My children.  Give reverence and honor to Him, just like you give reverence and honor to Me and My Son.  He is the One who lives inside of your spirit by creating new life within you. You have no spiritual power except in My Holy Spirit.  Give to Him the honor due to Him and you will live triumphantly in the earth.
     Your Father of Love and Power       
    

Friday, February 5, 2016

RELATIONSHIPS - BORN OF THE SPIRIT


Dear One,
    The most important relationship you will ever have is your personal, intimate relationship to Me.  Jesus said that you must be born of water and the Spirit.  When a human is born of water, emerging from the water in the womb of the mother, you are born into the world as a human being.  That person is a member of the human race, having been born in the identical way of other humans.  The problems then begin of battling against the forces of evil sent from hell to destroy you or at least cause you life-long problems which rob you of your happiness.
     Be of good cheer, I have the solution to all of those problems.  Jesus died so that you will have access to My Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Life who lived in Jesus and then He sent to live in all people who need supernatural power to overcome the problems.  That is called being born of the Spirit, often called reborn or born   again. (John 3:3-8))
    The first man, Adam, opened the door and allowed the devil to enter the earth; but Jesus, by His sacrifice, allowed My Holy Spirit to also enter the world with the purpose of defeating the works of the devil, just like Jesus did by My power when He walked the earth.
     My plan was that My newly born of the Spirit children would allow My Spirit to guide them and lead them in the ways to defeat evil in their lives, but very often My children who are born of My Spirit are blinded to the truth of also being baptized with My Spirit.  That spiritual baptism is what Jesus called "the promise of the Father" because I made it possible for My earthly offspring to have My power to overcome every evil circumstance and situation brought upon them by the devil, who is the father of evil in the earth. 
     My children who have been born of My Spirit need My supernatural power to overcome all evil, so I provided  the baptism of the Holy Spirit.  When born of My Spirit I became resident in their spirits.  But when a person is baptized by My Spirit, the person is immersed in My Spirit and covered with My Spirit, and their minds and bodies as well as their spirits are also endued with My power.  There is from that time forth supernatural power always available to defeat the evil in the world which is never defeated by human abilities but is only defeated by the spiritual power of My Holy Spirit. That is called the full gospel, the entire and complete good news truth relating to the total salvation of My children from the works of evil in the world.
     Some of My offspring choose not to be born of My Spirit, only being satisfied to be religious in some way, choosing other gods who are either their politicians,  their entertainment heroes or their sports heroes.  They remain earthly instead of spiritual.  Others of My children choose not to be baptized by My Holy Spirit and remain powerless all of their lives.  They stay earthly minded instead of heavenly minded.  They never defeat evil because it takes spiritual power to defeat spiritual problems. (Acts 1:8)
     Then there are some of My children who become born of My Spirit and baptized by My Spirit who do not listen to My words of wisdom and knowledge given to them by My Spirit. They are too busy with their religous institutions to spend time alone with Me.  They only listen to religious leaders who endeavor to teach them, but they neglect the personal words of My Spirit in which there is the power to change themselves and their surroundings.  (James 1:5-8)
     It is My Holy Spirit who enlightens the minds of My children and increases My spiritual growth and power in them.  One-on-one communion with Me is what brings My spiritual life to your body, soul and spirit. (John 14:25-27)
     The apostle Paul said that his divine purpose was to become intimately acquainted with me so that he would know My power, the hope of My calling and the glorious inheritance of the saints to us who believe.   Paul spent several years alone with Me, learning directly from My Holy Spirit. (II Corinthians 1:15-24)
     I have the power, the wisdom and the knowledge to enable you to defeat every tribulation that can come into your life.  I provided My Holy Spirit to defeat all of the works of evil.  (II Peter 1:3-5)
     Take advantage of everything I give to you, being born of My Spirit and also baptized by My Spirit.  Then listen to My words of instruction given to you by My Spirit.  You will reign in life as My child when you do.  My gifts are free.  All you have to do is ask for them and receive them.  
     Your Heavenly Father of Solutions

Thursday, February 4, 2016

THE SPIRIT OF LIFE

Dear One,
     The words of My Holy Spirit, the Spirit of Life, sets you free from the words of sin and death that tempt you and mislead you.  (Romans 8:2-5)  My Spirit of Life is the same Spirit that was in Christ Jesus and He overcame the evil in the world in Him, so He can overcome the evil that is in the world for you.  That revelation from Paul contains the entire new covenant truth.  What the devil speaks to your mind to lead you into death and destruction can be replaced by My words of life and fulfillment through My Holy Spirit.  That is not only the good news, it's the best news ever spoken by My Spirit through any person. 
      My Spirit of Life wants to erase from mind every one of the devil's words of fear that have been programmed into your mind by religious leaders, politicians, naysayers and unbelievers. (I John 4:18)  
      My Spirit of Life wants to erase from your mind every one of the devil's words of unbelief that are programmed into your mind by preachers, pastors, false prophets and political leaders. (John 16:13-14)
      My Spirit of Life wants to erase from your mind every one of the devil's words of judgment that are programmed into your mind by religious teachers who only teach rules and regulations instead of the truth as revealed by My Holy Spirit. (John 8;15-16)
      My Spirit of Life wants to erase from your mind every one of the devil's words of temptations which lead to sin, iniquities, mistakes and transgressions, replacing them with My words of affirmation and love for you.(I John 4:16)
      My Spirit of Life wants to erase from your mind every one of the devil's words which made you feel inferior as spoken to you by your parents, your teachers, your friends and your acquaintances, words which have plagued you since childhood. (Philippians 4:8)
      My Spirit of Life will replace those words from hell which cursed you, replacing them with My words of love, affirmation, forgiveness, encouragement, gentleness, kindness, patience, faith and joy.  My words from the Spirit of Life will bring peace and security to your mind. (Galatians 5;22-25)
      My words from the Spirit of Life will build in you a mighty fortress, one which cannot be penetrated by evil words which lead to destruction because you will recognize My voice, the voice of your Father of life and joy, and you will refuse the voices from hell. (Psalm 18:2-3)
      My personal words to you are tailor-made especially for you so that you will fully understand.  They always are delivered in love and they bring life.  If the words you hear in your mind or from other people are not words of love and peace, they are not from Me.
      My words to you always set you free.  They never bring fear, dread, division, strife, dissension or judgment to you.  They always bring life and bring it more and more abundantly.
     Your Father of Love Words 
     

Wednesday, February 3, 2016

H HOME SCHOOLED AND FREE

Dear One,
    I gave to My church the ministry of teachers to teach you the things they have learned from My Holy Spirit.  (Romans 12:6-8) However, My greatest gift to My children is the private tutoring gift of My Spirit. (John 16:12-15) My intent was that the ministry teachers will teach you what they know, but My Spirit takes those truths and amplifies them to you, personalizes them for you so that the revelations of My words will do their adequate work of transforming your life.
    When you allow Him to be your tutor, then you have truly eaten what I prepared for you from My table and you have drunk from My cup that runs over. (Psalm 23) Until then, the food merely sits on the table ready to be served. The truths are not assimilated into your mind and body to change you into My image until you allow My Spirit to personally teach you from the inside of you, from inside of your own spirit.  Those teachings enlighten your mind.  Those personalized teachings are from the true communion of which Jesus spoke, the times when you seek Me with your whole heart.  (John 6:53-56) Until then, the spiritual food just sits on the table of your mind, undigested, with no power.
     As your spiritual home school Tutor, I tell you how to lighten your loads, empty your garbage, eliminate unnecessary baggage from your mind so that you can truly be free.  All of those hindrances are the ones which cause you problems in your life and need to be eliminated.  That is why My personal revelations to you are so important, because I live in you and I tell you how to cleanse My temple, which is your body.  (I Corinthians 6:19-20)   My Spirit rejoices when you allow Him to do His housekeeping work, revealing how to empty the garbage and eliminate the baggage which has plagued you.  Those revelations come to your mind when we intercourse together, one on one.  Humans intercourse in secret and our intercourse together happens in secret, when we are in total communion.  They happen one-on-one, in the quietness of our communion. New Life comes to your mind and your body, transforming you. Home schooling one on one with Me is where all new Life overcomes the old life which has caused you grief and depression. (II Corinthians 3:15-18)
    Upon being born again, spiritually born of My Spirit, you are only a babe in your natural mind.  But you have the mind of Christ in your spirit where My Spirit lives.  It is through His work in you of tutoring you that My personal instructions to you cleanse you and transfer the same mind that was in Christ Jesus to your mind.  That is called revelation and that is what Jesus told Peter that the gates of hell will not prevail against it because the truths become your personal truths with the ability to change you and change your entire life into a life of joy. (Matthew 16:15-19)
     Your private tutor, My Holy Spirit, for which the price has already been paid by the sacrifice of Jesus, is forever available for your private teaching sessions. Hear His words and live.  Refuse His words and you will be forever confused and  easily led astray by ravenous wolves who will come to take away the teachings of men.  The wolves cannot take away My revelations to you. They build a fortress that is indestructible.
     Your Home School Tutoring, Loving Father
        

COMMUNION- BENEFICIAL HOME SHOOLING

COMMUNION - BENEFICIAL HOME SCHOOLING
Dear One,
     Spiritual communion has nothing to do with sitting in a church drinking wine from a cup and eating a wafer.  Jesus said when you do that, you should do it in "remembrance" of Him, or as a memory of Him.  He did not say to do it in substitution of true communion with Him.   He described the true communion which was to come through which people would be free from the works of evil in their lives and it is through spiritually communing with Him through the Holy Spirit who lives inside of you in your own spirit.
     Communion always involves an exchange of words, ideas, beliefs and teachings.  Communion is a discussion between two beings.  It is the Father/child relationship for which I yearn so deeply to have with you.  It is the true worship of Me of which Jesus spoke, worshiping Me in Spirit and in truth.  (John 4:23-24) When you connect with Me through our spirits, truth always comes from My mouth to your mind and you are changed into My image of love.  Without the exchange of words of truth from My Spirit to you, there is no true communion.
      Jesus explained it further when He said that that when My Holy Spirit came into the earth that He would be My spiritual connection to My children.  He said that His ministry in the world would be My new covenant with all people.  And He said that hearing the words that Jesus spoke and then hearing the revelations of His words as personally delivered from My Spirit to you would be true worship.  (Luke 22:13-21; Mark 14:22-24) 
     That miracle of My coming to live in people was spoken of as a mystery because humans cannot understand it until it is personally experienced.  When you have personally experienced the truth of the teaching of Jesus' words (eaten His body) as explained by My Holy Spirit (drink His blood), then you have experienced true communion with Me and new life comes into you.  You have received the exchange of life from Me to you, empowering you with power that you have never known because My revelations to you are Life giving and produce changes in human life.
     Many of My children have been satisfied with the religious ritual of only replicating the true communion by drinking wine and eating a waver which I said only to do in remembrance of Me.  I never said to do it as a substitution for true communion with me where My Holy Spirit personally teaches you the true meaning of My words spoken through Jesus and infuses you with supernatural power to overcome every evil that comes against you in your earthly life.  True communion with me produces supernatural life in you which changes you from the inside out.  Ritualistic communion only puts you in remembrance of Me.  (Luke 22:19) Do not be satisfied with the ritual because there is no exchange of power in it.
     If you want the fire of My Holy Spirit to burn out the devil's programming in you which has given you lifelong problems, true communion with Me is the only way it can happen.   All it takes it communing with Me and hearing My words of wisdom and truth.  John the Baptist said that Jesus would baptize you with My Spirit and with fire.  (Matthew 3:11)  That is My true baptism.  (Acts 2:1-4)  It is not a one time thing.  It is a continual event where every time we commune there is new life infused into you and the troublesome old life passes away.
      It was My promise from the very beginning when I hid the Tree of Life from Adam in the garden because of his communion with the devil by eating of the devil's words and yielding to his temptations.  So I had to take him out of the beautiful garden until Jesus came and redeemed the world, restoring our relationship and making it possible for people to receive My Spirit because of the death and resurrection of Jesus.  (Genesis 3:23-24)
      Being baptized with My Holy Spirit was My promise to all people, equipping you to be able to have the benefits of our relationship while still in the earth. (Acts 1:3-5)  I had been waiting for generations of men to be able to fulfill My promise and on the day of Pentecost it became a reality.  My Holy Spirit came to earth to live in the spirits of people just like He lived in Jesus, giving them power to bring My kingdom into the earth in their lives through the constant communion with my Holy Spirit which produces more and more of My glorious life in My children.
      As your Father I am always available for our one-on-one conversations which transform you into My image little by little and enable you to be abundantly blessed. 
      Your Life Giving Father     
          

Monday, February 1, 2016

RELATIONSHIPS - FIRST ADVICE
Dear One,
    My first piece of advice that I gave to Adam was not to listen to the voice of the alien spirit, the devil, allowing him to enter into Adam's paradise in the Garden of Eden.  (Genesis 2:15-17) Since I gave free will to people, that first piece of valuable advice came with the truth that if he did let the devil into the earth that he would die.  In the writing that was called the tree of the knowledge of good and evil.  Adam already had My knowledge that caused him to live, but I warned him that if he did listen to the voice of evil that the devil would also bring his evil into the earth and people would have the experience of death and destruction. 
    Immediately after cautioning Adam not to allow the devil to deceive him into obeying his temptations, that is when I created Eve, so that Adam would not be alone but have a mate who could be flesh of his flesh, in total unity with Adam. a help mate for him, and that they would procreate in earth and have dominion over it. 
     My second valuable piece of advice, which people call a commandment, was that a man would leave his father and mother and cleave to, or be unity with, his wife.   In fact, I said that the reason he could be in unity with his wife is because he would leave his parents and cleave to his wife.  In other words, I advised Adam that when men find a mate that they should cut the umbilical cords with their parents and become one unit, one flesh with their wives.  I gave that advice to Adam, a formula for a happy union, because I knew that if Adam did invite the devil into this paradise that the first thing the devil would do is cause strife between a couple who have become one flesh.  I tried to eliminate part of the problem by telling Adam that men should cut the emotional umbilical cord with their parents upon uniting with a mate or there would be problems in the future. 
      So here you are, living in a world that has not taken My advice that I gave to the first man, that he should cleave to wife instead of continuing to be in unity with his parents.  More often than not, most problems in a marriage are caused by the husband or wife still being still in one flesh unity with their parents instead of with their mates.  Men hold onto their unified relationships with their mothers and women hold onto their fulfilling relationships with their fathers instead of their husbands and wives.  The first thing that Adam did after he allowed the devil to enter the earth is he blamed Eve for his disobedience.  (Genesis 3:12-13) If you will read the story, you will see that I told Adam not to allow satan into the earth even before I created Eve.  That is why I said later that Eve was deceived but Adam disobeyed.  (I Timothy 2:13-14; Romans 5:19) Eve did not hear My admonition to Adam because she wasn't created at the time. Adam had to have relayed My advice to her.  But then when she was deceived by the devil and enticed Adam to disobey, Adam blamed her for his disobedience. Strife entered their union.
    The Adam curse is that men still blame their wives for all of their failures and the parents of men blame their daughters-in-laws for the failures of their sons. 
     So what does that have to do with relationships?  From the beginning I knew that if satan was allowed to enter the earth by Adam, then the first thing he would destroy is the unity between husband and wife, which is exactly what that evil spirit did, he put enmity between them.  My caution to Adam, that a man should leave his parents and only cleave to his wife was very, very important advice because if a man still cleaves to his mother instead of to his wife, there are huge in-law problems, which still plague My children today. 
     When a man marries, if he does not break emotionally from his parents, expecting them to continue to assume responsibilities in his life, expecting them to continue to be his emotional support instead of his wife, then the curses that satan brought into the world at the beginning are multiplied in the lives of all of the participants, husband, wife and in-laws.  The same is true about a wife.  If she continues to be daddy's little princess instead of her husband's confidant, emotional support and unified "one flesh", there is never a true marriage. A husband's adoration of his wife will never live up to the adoration of her father if she has never left her parents and is still her father's "little princess"  until she is  truly unified with her husband.   A sound marriage is My desire for both husband and wife.
      So the problems with marriages has always been that parents do not allow their children to successfully cut the emotional and financial umbilical cord from them, allowing them to fulfill My desire for their children of being one flesh with their mates.  When parents take the side of a husband or wife against their mates in a situation, they have handed their children over to the devil for his continued destruction of the family unit.  In that scenario, I am deeply grieved that My advice is not taken, my advice that a person shall leave the emotional support, the financial support, and stop always being the rescuer of their own child to the disgust of their child's mate,  They have negated My design for a perfect family unit, that husband and wife should leave the authority of their parents behind in their lives when they marry.
      Parents teach their children how to mature, how to refuse evil and they educate them, but when they marry the primary influence of the parents should be over.  It will be if the parents have not been guilty of clinging to their children and the children have not continued to cling to their parents. 
      There is peace in any family whose members have taken My advice.  A parent's authority over their children is over when they marry.  From there on, the parents should cease to be the authority in the lives of their children.  If they insist on continuing to be authoritative in the lives of their children, they participate in the devil's plans to cause strife between husband and wife.
      Children need to honor their fathers and mothers but continuing to be in total unity with the parents to the degree of breaking the bond between husband and wife is the devil's strongest weapon against families.  Relationships between adult children and their parents should be like friendships, not like dependent children and parents.  When parents insist on loyalty from their children to the detriment of the marriage of their children, they will live in constant turmoil because it is outside My plan for the emotional maturing and self sufficiency of their children.  They cripple their children emotionally by requiring them to remain their "babies" which is what the dependent children remain instead of responsible adults. There will be in-law problems forever if  parents interfere with the unity between their adult children and their mates.
      I warned about it from the beginning before Eve was even created from the flesh of Adam, and it is still the truth because the devil wants emotionally immature. mommy-and-daddy-dependant- adult children through whom he can curse all families. That is his desire, not Mine.
     As with all of My instructions, admonitions, principles and advice, this truth is the key to happy families.
     I love you and want you to avoid the pitfalls planned by the devil through which he destroys families.  This truth is in My instruction book and My Holy Spirit can teach you how to implement the necessary steps to efficiently follow My advice on how to cut the emotional dependence of adult children upon parents instead of being emotionally in unity with their mates. 
     Take My advice and live the abundant life.  Refuse to follow it and you sign yourself up for a lifetime of in-law strife and misery.
      I want you happy and free from the responsibilities of dependent adult children.  They need to be in unity with their mates, not with their parents.  (Ephesians 5:21-32)
      Your Family Loving Father