TOXICITY

Dear One,
     Whether it's parental, marital or sibling ties, when the relationship to another person becomes toxic to you, then it is no longer blessed and should be temporarily severed.  When a relationship is toxic to you, your hearts are no longer bound together with the ties of love.  They are bound by guilt, condemnation and abuse.
     Loyalty is not to be considered in toxic relationships because the devil uses loyalty as a tool to keep people in submission to someone who desires to dominate. 
     Just because I told you to forgive someone doesn't mean I told you to continue allowing someone to emotionally or physically injure you.

    To forgive someone means to release that person from the guilt of the injury.  Sometimes it is necessary to temporarily both physically and emotionally release the person from your life while I work behind the scenes to change the personality of the domineering person.   I will also be working with you to let you know My unconditional love for you so that your damaged ego will be restored and whole. Very often, without a change in the relationship, it is impossible for Me to work in the situation. 
     You don't have to repeatedly go back to an injurious relationship and be emotionally iinjured again and again.  Jesus didn't go to the cross over and over again for the sins of the world.  He only went once. He didn't need to be abused over and over again and you don't need to be abused over and over again by a toxic relationship.  You need to learn methods of self protection until you love yourself enough to protect yourself.
      It might be temporarily necessary to cut off the relationship that is toxic to your emotional health because that toxicity affects your physical and spiritual health, also.  If you don't separate yourself from the abuse, it's like you are throwing yourself under the wheels of a car over and over again, asking to be hurt.  I love you too much to let you purposely put yourself in the position of being injured over and over again.
      Forgive the offender and decide if you need to temporarily separate yourself from the toxic verbiage that has cursed you and made you feel defeated.  You should love yourself enough to protect yourself.  I love you and want you emotionally healed and whole. 
     Love, God. 
Romans 13:12-14; I Corinthians 3:3; II Corinthians 12:20; Galatians 5:19-26; Philippians 2:3-8; II Timothy 2:23-26; James 3:14-18.