Thursday, January 3, 2013

UNCONDITIONAL VALIDATION

Dear One,
     Validation.  Don't forget that word, validation.  It is so important  It is the foundation of love.
     The first thing a person feels when he or she receives My love is My validation, the highest degree of value for him or her.
     When you meet a person or when you are in the presence of a person, give your validation, make the person know that you value him or her to the highest degree. That establishes love in the relationship.
     A person cannot feel worthless and also feel unconditional, validating love.    
     A person cannot feel judged or condemned and also feel loved.
     A person cannot feel ignored and also feel
loved.
     A person cannot feel unaccepted and also feel loved.
     When a person feels validated and prized, he or she begins to realize his or her own worth, which is the basis of a self respect.  When a person has self respect and is confident, then he or she has enough self love to love others because he or she is not always seeking for love from others.
     Validation is having a sense of approval of a person's own existence, that he or she matters to others.  That comes from unconditional love.  It's your primary ministry.
     Love, God
Psalms 17:8; Deuteronomy 32:10-13; Romans 8:38-38; John 3:16-17; Romans 5:5-11; Matthew 12:30-31; I John 4:7-8.   

    

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